Funerals-How do I get myself to cry at my uncle’s funeral that I have to go to this Friday?
I have to go to a funeral this Friday and I don’t know how many hours funerals last,I hate going to Funerals because I hate the intense sad feelings you get.How do I get myself to go to the funeral and just not say anything at all just go and keep silent till it is over.
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Answer by Fox
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hit urself hard in the family jewels–lol -that should keep you occupied
you admit that you dont even know how long they last but yet assert that you hate going to them… interesting.
learn to think of the deceased more than yourself next time my friend.
Put eye drops and lemon juice in your eyes. You could try chillis too.
do you find it necessary to cry?
just don’t speak. my grandmother recently passed… i didn’t chat it up with anyone… i eventually cried, a genuine cry. if you loved them then the pain of separation will be enough. if you didn’t love them, shame on you.
You wanna cry or you wanna stay silent?
Onion
pluck your nose hairs right before. Your eyes will be watering.
Crying is not mandatory at funerals.
If you don’t want to speak, just hug your relatives and go sit by yourself.
I’m sorry about your Uncle.
It’s not important that you cry, but it is important that you remember the positive things about the uncle.
When you are around your family, think of what he meant to those he loved.
I know for me, it does not hit me until I see them in the casket. At that point, I typically start bawling my eyes out. That’s when it hits me that they are no longer here or that I will never be able to talk to them in this life.
But what helps me through it is to remember that what is in the casket is merely the shell of that person.
As a person who believes in Eternity, I am thankful when I know the people I love are Believers, because it means that I will see them one day and be able to give them one more hug.